Thursday, 16 July 2015

The almighty blame game, who should be blamed?


I woke up this morning to the sound of serious chaos few houses away from mine and naturally I first took precaution by first telling my kids to be very quiet since‎ this is an unusual act in my neighborhood. I leave in a "mind your business " neighborhood Were everybody is independent from his/her neighbor. it's strictly a mind your business zone,  occasional "hi and hello" to your neighbor when driving out or in. 

I quickly wore a joggers and a T-shirt and DH wore a jean knicker and we both went close to our gate to see how safe it was to step out. DH and I quickly ran into the gate house on seeing heavily armed police men, a police vehicle and a crowd made up of about 15persons.
 What could have happened to involve the police?
 I asked DH. A woman among the crowd was‎ shouting on top of her lungs, hurling insults at someone we couldn't really see and also urging the police to make the arrest quickly while a group of about 4 women Were trying to calm her down

Shortly after, a young man of about 40years was escorted into the police vehicle and they left. We came out of our hiding place and opened our gate. We saw the little crowd dispersing already, DH suggested we return to the house and get set for the day saying it's not our business.  

I was really curious at this point, what would warrant the police arresting someone in our neighborhood whom we believe everyone has a clean character? 

I quickly greeted my next door neighbor who I know looks at me with this; "why do you have so many kids look"? After exchanging pleasantries she quickly went into the gist surrounding the arrest.

The woman shouting on top of her lungs called in the police to get her husband arrested. Ah  Why? He got the wife's cousin pregnant, took her to a quack to get rid of the pregnancy and it resulted to severe complications which ‎the said cousin is in a critical condition in the hospital. 

Why didn't the woman notice the illicit affair Before now? I asked without expecting an answer. My neighbor replied saying she works off-shore while her DH isn't employed and they both have a son together. The cousin was brought in to assist in looking after her son while she is away. ‎


Now I ask, who is to blame in this case? The woman who is working her butt off to make sure DH and kid is comfortable or the man who is left idle with the wife's cousin?

Ps: true story.

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21 comments:

  1. The husband is mean and shameless idiot... Even the cousin is ungrateful.

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  2. The man shud be ashamed for such a foolish act.... ur wife's cousin? C'mon.. who does that? He ddnt just sleep with her, He got her pregnant and He ddnt stop @ that, He went to a quack doctor? That man is all shades of stupid! and the cousin too is an ungr8ful one... I wonder how she sleeps @ nite knowing fully well that she's screwing her aunt's husband... smh

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    1. I call it betrayal of the highest order. Haba! Both of them are so wrong.

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  3. This matter na wa oh! Dont know if i want to blame the cousin in all entirety though, Because uncle may have forced or coerced her into agreement. Then even if she didnt agree what was she to do? Move out with what excuse? You know these things work now.

    I'd blame the man in full. he was responsible for his actions and thank God at least the woman shamed him by exposing him in such a manner mcheeewww....

    even though her family will still castigate her for exposing *a family affair*

    What a mess!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    1. Yes, very true. She might have been placed under duress. I hope to get to the end of the matter though, I'll share it all.

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  4. The man is to blame. He's a lazy scumbag.
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    1. I just hope he gets busy after this episode...welcome aboard Airlar.

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  5. stupid man,ungrateful cousin.... am even forced to say serves the cousin rite... mtschew......



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    1. yes seriously!!!!! u bring ur cousin home,instead of the losy daughte rof eve to keep her legs shut or jejely leave ur huz wifout explanation... she will na stay and be shagging DH...wetin she da find?

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  6. I am a man and I am saying the man is completely to blame. It is bad enough u dont have a job loser. U go and impregnate ur wife's cousin on top of it . Wat kind of FOOL is this?!!
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  7. Men and their roving eyes...... *SMH* He deserves whatever missile comes his way....

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  8. Or the cousin?. I just hate hearing stuffs like D's. I'd blame the cousin over and over.
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  9. The husband should be blamed. He's an ingrate.

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  10. Lol @ why do u have so many kids look Lolz. The husband is to blame joor. The wife is working her ass off to take care of both of them and he can't keep his third leg in the pants???

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    1. Lol, thats how she looks at poor me....lol.

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