Another type of husband is the Creative Convertible – He introduces himself as the life wire of every show but comes back home and sends his shoe to the south while his socks travels to the north and both begin to look for themselves the
next time he needs to use them when it’s less than 10mins to a crucial meeting thereby throwing every member of the family into a shoe & socks recovery venture.
How do you handle this ladies’ man who says ‘I love you’ to every woman he meets and uses romantic adjectives that you think should be reserved for you? How easy is it for you to navigate the waters of this man who seems to repeat his mistakes but can’t stand rejection as that voice reminds him of the voice of his headmistress who taught him pretence because the right environment was not created for him to be emotionally accountable?
The creative husband is everything every woman wants from afar but also the stress every woman detests because of his volatile emotions that could bond so easily with any woman that shows care and concern because while he is a motivator, enthusiastic, optimistic, creative problem solver and a superb relator he could also be time wasting, inattentive to details, indiscipline, exaggerative and can’t stand rules and regulations.
But trust me he is not wicked as he is the first to apologize for a mistake and expects to be forgiven because he forgives others so easily.
He will always defer to anyone that shows care and concern & that is why creating the right environment that can make him emotionally accountable is your major task and once that is achieved you would have successfully tamed his penchant for costly mistakes that can mess everyone up which means you must combine a cheer leading role when he is doing so well with the mothering role when he has done badly.
To be continued...
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